Thanks for all the replies. Bev, I had asked to have a double mastectomy when I had my original surgery. The surgeon and oncologist agreed that that would not be the best option for some reason. I already have problems with my lower back because of small cracks in the bone that goes across the top of my butt. Osteoperosis. So I hope this won't make it worse. I will be getting a lift on the left side. But I will talk to the PS and ask what her thoughts are on that. Is it the "balance" that would make you have back problems now? The way that the muscle "pulls" to that side?
Thanks Kathy for your suggestions and sharing of your experience. I have read several of your posts and find them very interesting and informative. I appreciate the candid answers. We all have to deal with those "bodily functions" so why not address them? My dogs will love your suggestion on walking more. They really love their daily walks around the neighborhood. On your nipple reconstruction, where did they take the skin from to make the areola? Also, did you have them make a nipple that was "at attention" or how does that work? Did you get tatooing too?
Can anyone tell me about the tummy tuck part of it? I had heard that if you have had a hysterectomy (which I have) that you will still have that "ledge". Is that true? I forgot to ask the PS. When is Bernadette supposed to have her surgery? I will be thinking of her and hoping for the best outcome. I also had 2 very large children so have quite a bit of stretched skin to work with along with the ledge. I actually had planned on having a tummy tuck in 1986 but chickened out. Good thing or else I wouldn't be able to do this surgery now when I need it.
One more question. Does anyone have any suggestions for cording and puckering at the end of the scar in the armpit area? It also itches but is numb so I can't get any relief. It just drives me crazy. Does that even make sense?
Kim