Hi Bev,
I'm more of lurker here after discovering HW when my husband was diagnosed with PCa this past spring. I decided one night just this past week to look at other sites that listed a disease my loved ones (or myself)
had to deal with and checked out the BCa group. The PCa site was high-quality with great in-the-trenches experiences and med info. I haven't needed BCa support (thank God) in awhile, but whenever I see someone who is frightened or struggling, my heart goes out to them. "There but for the grace of God go I" puts it pretty well. The crazy-fear that "C" word can generate...
Anyway, the prostate cancer group have a "bible" - Dr. Walsh's guide to surviving prostate cancer. My own "bible" was Dr. Susan Love's breast book. I actually have her autographed copy and went with some survivors to one of her local lectures to meet her. Hope this site frequently recommends her book as a great resource. Dealing with the fear this cancer brings to women is one more item on the lousy list of dealing with breast cancer diagnosis. The book was a great help to me.
Glad to cyber-meet you. Wish all here a healthy, happy 2011.
xoNEIrish's wife