New here! unfortunately!

Hey everyone! My name is Jerica. I'm a 30 yr old mom and girlfriend to two very kinda ppl! Also a mom to many pets! Over the last six weeks i have felt "funny" Like funny tired all THE TIME. drained drained. I take a walk, 2 miles and i'm yawning all the way down and back! That is crazy i never did that. I have lost all motivating function to cook clean or play with my daughter. i have no sex life. This is something that has been off and on for the 8 yrs we have been together. But lately its worse.
I went to the doctor in april because i thought i was prego. That i knew had to be negative bcause i have a IUC(mirena) and some symptoms i had the doc ordered some blood work. That came back fine. prego test negative. So the following week she ran a complete panel. There are some lows and highs but she said most of it was hormones. So i have kept telling her i just feel drained all the time. She has told me to go out and walk. I told her why it doesn't boost my energy afterwards like it used too. My stress levels are off the charts. Dishes not done. Daughters teeth not brushed. Her daddys work boots in the living room. Just stupid sh$*! So i asked her for a cortisol test. and did that too. According to the Mayo clinic. normal is 7-25 mcg/dl mine was 5. She ordered another test to make sure it was right. 8 am it was 5 3 pm it was 6.3. My thyroid test came back as TSH: 1.11 and Free t4: .95. Looking at these it does seem "low" on the normal end but this is the first time i've ever had any labs. She also prescribed my zoloft 100mgs. 50mgs a day for 2 weeks then up it to 100. The first day i took it my stomach went to orbit with pain. I also have endometriosis. Which is why i have a mirena. Ok so long story short i feel like a derailed train. Am i just lazy cuz i'm fat or fat cuz i'm lazy. Or am i just a crazy fat lady!! LOL. I would love to find the miracle pill that zaps away fat butttttttt that aint gonna happen.,
So in conclusion. What do you all think is my deal. any vitamins herbs. I eat farely decent. I don't sit down with chips and beer. I'm good at portion control. HELP HELP
Jerica

Jerica, I'm sorry you are feeling so sick and that you aren't getting a lot of answers. Is your doc going to do anything about the low cortisol levels or the low hormone levels? I found out a few months ago that a lot of my hormone levels were low, so I was given a compunded hormone cream to rub on my wrists and it has made a pretty significant change in my energy level. I am actually able to be up and doing things most days. It's something to look into. Also with your thyroid levels, a doc once told me that if you are at either end of what is considered "normal" you might be feeling the effects of problems with your thyroid and it might need to be treated. Hang in there and don't give up looking for help. And no, you are not crazy and you are certainly not lazy. I think healthy people have a hard time comprehending just how severe and debilitating our fatugue can be.

also i should probably re calculate my tiredness to 3-4 months back. I also have been loosing chunks of hair. And not on just my head. Pubes too:( i pee all the time. she even check me for diabetes and neg there... grrrrrrrrrr frustrated is all i can say.

Hello jerica, me new too! I too have many regular meetings with the loo - like way too much to be 'normal' but digestive and urinary problems are the norm unfortunately. Am a hairdresser so can almost certainly diagnose stress alopecia. from reading your input that came through in droves. you are a worried little stress monster aren't you mate? Try and take time for yourself and relax somehow, whatever works for you. Essential oils and a bath, sitting in church praying, tai chi, relaxing music and soft lighting, open field and a bar of chocolate, whatever calms you and takes you away from yourself.
Hope it helps to know hair loss isn't always medical - it can be emotional.