Hemorrhoidectomy and Never Ending Pain

I had prolapsed hemorrhoids and was told by the surgeon that it would take 2 to 3 months to heal. That was 9 months ago and the pain is still excruciating, there is still bleeding and a lot of leakage. The suggestion for pain relief has been just paracetamol and I take 6 of these a day. They barely work. I`m reluctant to go to morphine. I also have had a mouthful of ulcers from oral thrush for 6months which may have resulted from my general run down condition. I have been using the recommended treatment for for this with no result. To add to my misery people politely say I smell. And I suppose I do.
I`m posting this because I live in a country area and maybe the medical treatment is not the best. Could I ask for your advice on:
. Is it reasonable for recovery of this surgery to take so long?
. Should I change doctors/ surgeons, have more than one?
. Could I/ should I go to a Pain Management help center?
. Is there a pain relief suppository? Docs have said not to use any in this area. But I can hardly walk.
. Would anti depressants help me?
Thank You. Shilly

Shilly,
I was wondering how things have progressed with you.

I had PPH- procedure for prolapsed hemorrhoids, also called stapled hemorrhoidopexy - three years ago and the pain has NEVER gone away. I've tried many different medications and therapies, and I'm barely able to work. Have no personal or social life anymore because of the pain. I'm hoping you have had better recovery than I. Did you have the same procedure?