My first stone I was 18 years old. Had never felt pain like that in my life. I was in the hospital of 9 days on a Morphine drip. Had a stent placed and taken out during this stay. After about
a month the pain went away. I had a few infection over the next few years after that, pain to one degree (1) then with another infection the pain would be diiferent (10).
I never strain my urine but I see the flakes float to the bottom of the toliet bowl. They are really dark in color kinda look like a paint chip, sometimes they are smaller and look like coffee grounds. Yes my toliets are clean so its not dirt . I have had the same comments, "they are to small to cause blockages" but then I find out in researching and googling "They can"
I have never had the flakes show up on scans. Oh we found out is during surgery my doctor took a scope and when up to the kidney to look around. Upon entering the kidney he saw all the flakes floating around in a milky kind of fluid. (Infection, which they said I didn't have)
My pain from the beginning has changed it can be calm to me on the floor screaming. Sometimes its constant dull aching to another time I feel like someone is taking a knife and stabbing me.
My infections were like you they came in clusters. It was hard to fight the infection. Now I know I had more. I don't get fevers and omiting from my infections. They are almost silent with me.
Yes I have been told by my urologist that infections can start to hurt even before tests pick the infection up.
I will tell you now I went years without pain meds. All my doctors were at a loss thinking I was just looking for attention. Until they saw my Polysistic Kidney Disease on a scan. They went to look and found all problems. If it wasn't for my genetics with PKD I would still be without pain meds.
All I can tell you with me since the beginning I always knew something was wrong. I would have nightmares that when I died it would be stomach and back pain. Now I feel the feeling I got during these nightmares. I know it sounds strange but it really happened. I used to tell my hubby all the time.
I will say one more time the pain comes in all different levels with me.
All I can do is cross my fingers for you to seek lots and lots of opinions. Heck you could of pulled a muscle that is beating the crap outta you....
Laurie