Bill,
I am sorry you are going through this. I have had some similar issues with PM docs, surgeons, and PCP's as well. It seems like no one will help, and that they don't care how much pain you are in. It stinks, and the medical community doesn't seem to want to change it, since that would be close to claiming responsibility!
But seriously, I have been there, and am still there. I hope things get better for you and you find a doc that is willing to work with you.