Dear Jimmy,
You know, it isn't often that I feel that someone should change their entire health support system and find new physicians. In your case though.... I truly *feel* that your doctors behavior was inapproiate and in my opinion abusive. There are many ways to approach a patient about life style choices. Many ways to approach a patient about making positive changes. I do not think that your doctor was looking out for your best interest when he went on a tirade about your weight.
I would understand, if say he contacted your primary care so that he could approach you find out your feelings regarding you weight. Even if say, you were approached by either one with tools and resources to even just change your nutrition choices daily. Then see if you are comfortable with changing your lifestyle. But... none of that was the case.
You were approached in a negative, aggressive, abusive manner. You were threatened, belittled, ridiculed and unfairly judged. It is so important at this point to speak with the hospital administrator and let them know what happened. How it happened, what was said. All of it. It would be very damaging if all of what he said and did was done to someone who isn't as strong as you are.
Yes, I completely agree it is time to talk to your primary care doctor about a Cymbalta increase. Remember that depression is a chronic illness just like your pain is. It needs to be treated or else it can get out of control. From your post, I can tell you are fed up with the pain AND the depression. A increase might be just the thing to help both or those? If not, then perhaps switching to something new or going back to the Prozac since you already know it works well for you.
While you are with your primary care, speak to him about the incident and about your care with the pain management doctor the last 6 months. See if he can refer you to someone else. Make sure he sends your records over or requests them from you current PM, then sends them over to a new one.
Most of all, I am terribly sorry you were treated so badly. It isn't okay. Not at all. Not under ANY circumstances. You pay your PM, and quite well I might add. You do not deserve to be treated like that. Especially NOT from someone that you pay to provide a service for you.
I hope at some point the pain and depression ease up enough for you to get some true rest. Hang in there stay strong!
*warm hugg*
dani