Hi Dex,
I "think" we briefly talked in chat.... did we?? :) I'm sorry. My memory is down the tubes :)
Welcome to the board but sorry you have to be here. There are many wonderful, encouraging friends here... and I hope you'll stick around. It sounds like you've been through quite a lot.
My name is Tina; I'm 37 (soon to be 38); and - as my name implies - I have 8 kiddos. 6 boys and then - surprise - identical twin girls that came 6 months ago. Never know what life will bring, right?
Anyway, just wanted to welcome you.... Feel free to jump right in, ask questions and so forth. If you need help w/ anything - just ask and someone will help you.
Take good care...--Tina