I did a little research myself, and I think you may file for your husbands SS if you are at least 60yrs of age. However if you are disabled, you may file for his SS if you are between the age of 50 and 60yrs old.
Some states may differ on this!....I still don't understand if you can receive both disability and your husbands SS. Like Jim said, call the SS office and ask them. I'm seriously considering filing for SSD myself, and it looks like there is a lot to learn and many options to think about
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Good luck...and please do report back here, as I'm sure it will help someone who may be faced with you're same situation. Thanks so much for asking here on the forum!
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