Welcome to the forum, Seacoast.
Listen to your doctors and go to a pain clinic. Just find a good one - ask referring doctors, friends. Make sure at least one of the pain docs is an anesthesiologist because you have neck problems and you don't want anyone else messing with thoracic or neck. Physiatrists are often fine with lumbar until it gets to ablations (look up). I wouldn't like an ortho working on my nervous system.
Your neuros are right no surgery yet. That's a really last resort! Injections, and there are many types, can reduce or sometimes completely eliminate spine pain for months or more. My first lasted 2 years!
The bone spurs are not causing your pain - my opinion as a patient, not worth beans unless you take it with salt. It's the foramina (plural of Latin foramen -holes for nerves to pass through) and other passages that are narrowing and pinching the pain nerves. Well, depending on where they are, they could cause some of the pain. But you still don't want surgery - risk too high - paralysis, worsening of pain.
Lumi's got a good handle on the pain - TENS and such.
The pain clinic can do the EMG too, and it's a good idea to make sure none of the pain is due to something wrong with the peripheral nerves. They will also send you for an MRI (Yay! No radiation.) to see where the impingements are.
You're not going to get cured. This bone stuff took a long time to build up and it takes a long time, maybe a couple of years, to get relief bit by bit. Meanwhile more arthritic changes keep occurring. Not meaning to be negative because there is a good chance of getting relief so you can go back to living comfortably.
So find a good pain group, not a bunch of guys herding sheep with some non-doctor as shepherd. Research a whole lot of threads using the search box at the top of the page. And come back with loads more questions. I'm no expert, still finding people here who know way more than me, and thankful for all of them!
PS: Get all your doctors' records, copies of all imaging on discs, copies of all written reports. Make a few copies, some for yourself, some to take with you to other doctors. If you have proof of cause for your pain they won't treat you like a drug-seeker. I keep file folders by body part.
Post Edited (Alcie) : 3/16/2014 12:42:03 PM (GMT-6)