I put my 50mcg patch on my upper arm. My second best place is on my back / upper shoulder. My wife puts them on for me there. If placed anywhere else they won't stick so I'm limited.
Normally my pharmacy provides me the Watson brand, this time I got the Mallinckrodt ones and they are tiny and you can't see the gel. They use a different technology than the Watson brand. I don't think these break down as good and personally I don't get the relief I do with the Watson. Just my two cents about brands.
Overall the Fentanyl patches do work well for me. Don't think I want to increase the dosage.