Hello Vernita...I just want to offer my support as your surgery date approaches. You have been given priceless information from Susie and Abilene, and Birder Nancy. I, too, am horribly concerned about
you trying to do this "alone". I would also ask you if rehab inpatient facility is a possibility? Do you have family or anyone that you could move in with for a few weeks? I don't mean to alarm you, but I don't think it's a good idea to be alone post-surgery.
I understand, however, if you indeed have no one to step in. I have a large extended family, but sadly we are not close. During my surgeries throughout my 30's, I would move in with my parents to recuperate. My husband would commute from work. I would get homesick, so they would drive me home to see my fir babies, as I improved. I am so very thankful to have had that option, as it no longer exists. Fastforward 20+ years...
Nowadays, I know what it's like to "not" have parents (warts and all) to help me. I thank God every day that I have my husband of 35 years. Even so, we both feel SO ALONE when we encounter health emergencies on our own. I just told someone recently "I need a mom". Mine is almost 89, living in a facility. I now play the roll of mom to her (for 9+ years). These days she is more of "a rebelious child". I digress.
My heart aches for you, if you absolutely have to do this alone. I truly wish I could be near to help you. I don't know how much help I could be, in my current condition, but I don't want you to go through this alone.
These ladies that are posting have indepth knowledge and can guide you through your preparation. We will all be here to offer moral support for you. I just feel that you need support "in the flesh" if at all possible.
Hugs~~Dixie