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Posted 4/30/2015 1:37 AM (GMT 0)
Just got a call from the hospital. Dad's left lung clasped. The tubed it and he has a bit of relief. The surgery on the right lung from the 22nd seems to be holding up. Thank God!

I can't go over there because my appointment with the doctor is tomorrow and I can't miss it because of workman's comp. They called today to make sure I'd be there and there isn't anyone in the office right now.

I guess there wouldn't be anything to do but sit in the room.

Lord help me!
Posted 4/30/2015 2:14 AM (GMT 0)
Yes, may the good Lord give you peace and comfort and the same for your Dad. I'm sorry he has even more problems. You have to do what you know you have to do to take care of yourself, then get back to your Dad whenever you can. Blessings on you!
Posted 4/30/2015 3:51 AM (GMT 0)
So sorry to hear about your Dad Leila. It's horrid knowing parents are going through a bad time and you can't go to be with them. My thoughts to both of you - and all the best for your appointment tomorrow also.

Laura
Posted 4/30/2015 5:07 AM (GMT 0)
Thank you both very much. Just got another call from the hospital and they are transferring him to the ICU. (for the fourth time).

The surgery lung (right) is operating at 45% the left lung is still clasped even with the tube they inserted earlier.

Thank you for your prayers and support! I am not sure what I would have done the last few months without everyone here. I swear normally I am not this needy and feel like I would be a mental mess if I didn't have these boards to talk about the feelings in my heart.

Blessings to all of you
Posted 4/30/2015 5:16 AM (GMT 0)
Many prayers coming your way!
Posted 4/30/2015 7:50 AM (GMT 0)
If he's in ICU you know that's the best place for him and also know you would only be in the outside waiting room and he's not likely going to be aware of much of anything right now. As a parent even if our last thought in this world is upon us it will be the well being of our children. He would be more concerned over you losing a appointment or treatment then whether your sitting somewhere waiting on news of him.

Many prayers for your dad's continued healing.
Posted 4/30/2015 9:32 AM (GMT 0)
keeping you and your dad in my healing thoughts.
Posted 4/30/2015 3:20 PM (GMT 0)
Leila, I've been through this and it really stinks! The blessing is that he was still in the hospital so he got immediate care without delay.

Take a deep breath, now, take another, and another. If only we were so powerful as we wish we were. Sadly, we are not.

You've probably heard of the Serenity Prayer. I use it constantly. Somehow, it makes me feel better about the things I am powerless over and motivates me to take the actions that I can.

Count your blessings. Don't feel guilty about whatever joy you can experience just now. Your daughter, your loving husband, the sunshine, the birds etc. That's where we get our strength to face the difficulties of life.

I hope your doctor's appointment goes well and you get relief from the physical pain.

You are all in my prayers.
Posted 4/30/2015 6:21 PM (GMT 0)
Hey Leila...Just checking in on your daddy.  I'm sorry to hear this, but I am a realist.  IF there is such a thing as "prepare"...you should do so.  This may not end well, as I've said from the beginning.  I've been through this, walked those same hallways, waiting for my 5 minutes in ICCU to say "I'm here.  It's gonna be alright.  I love you"...even when I knew it wasn't.

Don't ever give up hope, but allow your faith to guide you. 

I know you are seeing your doctor today and I'm thinking of you...positive thoughts that he/she will understand your pain and suffering.

I saw my PM yesterday.  I'm still not over it.  My mom's 89th birthday is tomorrow, May 1st.  I always take cake to serve 35-40 residents plus staff.  She through a fit last year and would not come to the dining hall of the living center.  We proceeded without her.  Ten years of this (a lifetime really) has taken it's toll on me, with no help (just critique) from siblings.

I am depleted.  And the rest of the story....

~Dixie

Posted 4/30/2015 7:10 PM (GMT 0)
Chartreux, Thank you for all of your prayers xxx

nvrthesame98, You are right all I would be doing is sitting. Thank you for your prayers.

THE HAPPY TURTLE, I am do glad you are sending healing thoughts! Thank you

I looked it up and posted it below Pitmom. Thank you I needed this. It's perfect! Thank you for your prayers.

God, give me grace to accept with serenity
the things that cannot be changed,
Courage to change the things
which should be changed,
and the Wisdom to distinguish
the one from the other.
Living one day at a time,
Enjoying one moment at a time,
Accepting hardship as a pathway to peace,
Taking, as Jesus did,
This sinful world as it is,
Not as I would have it,
Trusting that You will make all things right,
If I surrender to Your will,
So that I may be reasonably happy in this life,
And supremely happy with You forever in the next.
Amen.

I got a PM yaaa, also PT. Official nerve damage and Bursitis. At least I have an answer even though they don't know the extent. I feel at least with PT and PM I feel like finally I am moving forward and not stagnate.

I can't thank you all enough. Blessings and love to each of you
Posted 4/30/2015 11:28 PM (GMT 0)
Leila, That's great news about getting a PM and PT! Hopefully now you will get relief from the pain, now and later!

I'm so glad you found the prayer, and it's the version I like the best!

I'm praying for your peace of mind.
Posted 4/30/2015 11:39 PM (GMT 0)
Leila, check my profile. It will change again in 24 hours.
Posted 5/1/2015 2:32 AM (GMT 0)
I love that prayer. As a woman in recovery, it's helped me so many times. I'm so glad it was suggested to you--I hope it helps you find a slice of peace in this storm. I know it will if you let it.

I'm still sending prayers up....haven't stopped yet. I'm grateful G-d's taken such good care of you. Getting into PT AND getting a PM physician....MOST excellent! And having your WC folks on the same page is such a relief.
I'm not thrilled that the nerve pain is diagnosed, but I can only tell you I was relieved to have that 'formal'. It meant I wasn't THAT crazy. LOL
I'm hopeful, with those things in place, your healing will improve and your pain will be controlled and successfully managed. Fingers crossed....hands clasped in prayer.

*huge hugs*
Posted 5/1/2015 3:33 PM (GMT 0)
dad is in serious condition and surgery may happen in the next hour heading over to the hospital now. Love to each of you
Posted 5/1/2015 4:14 PM (GMT 0)
I'm so sorry about your dad Leila, Prayers being sent.
Posted 5/1/2015 8:10 PM (GMT 0)
Sorry to hear there is more stress. Hoping this is his last surgery and that he can finally recover from all of this! Praying for you and your family!
Posted 5/2/2015 4:22 AM (GMT 0)
Much love to you, Leila. I hope you and your whole family are finding peace knowing that loads of love and prayers are being offered up for you and yours.
Thinking of you all.
Posted 5/2/2015 4:23 PM (GMT 0)
Still in the hospital no change. Possible surgery Monday. Surgeon said it would be like stapling a piece of wet tissue paper. Thank you for all the players and posts. Blessings and love to you all
Posted 5/3/2015 1:57 AM (GMT 0)
Still thinking of you and your family and saying many prayers, many blessings to you and try to make sure your getting some rests...
Prayers...
Posted 5/3/2015 11:46 AM (GMT 0)
keep strong. healing peaceful and comforting prayers to you and dad.
Posted 5/3/2015 10:31 PM (GMT 0)
Hoping you and your entire family have been having a peaceful Sunday. Prayers still going out.
Posted 5/4/2015 12:33 AM (GMT 0)
Thank you very much everyone. Nice to be able to check in here for a bit of positive words and healing. Surgery is Monday. Doctor isn't hopeful.

Sitting here in ICU a few hours ago we had an earthquake. 3 of them. That got the nurses hopping. No better place to be than here. They are not unusual for California. But when you are being quite and aware of your surroundings.... It's all about....... Hello Wirld. Lol

Staying at my parents till the surgery is over. Lord, I can't sleep. 21 years sleeping with my DH.... Silly me I'm having separation anxiety. The meds aren't helping.
LOL
I hope you are all well. I pray for each of you every night. Blessings, healing and love
Posted 5/4/2015 12:52 AM (GMT 0)
Thank you Leila and we will be praying for you and your family, too.
Posted 5/4/2015 10:59 AM (GMT 0)
Lord, Your ways are not our ways. We may not always know what is best for us, but we trust that You do. Guide the surgeons hands. Guide the medical staff. Bring healing to this child of yours. If he is to be called home to you, we pray you take him gently and bring comfort to his loved ones.
Posted 5/4/2015 11:07 AM (GMT 0)
Hope today finds you, and your dad, feeling much much better. Like-TONS better :)
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