Boy, been there, done that ...............I drop my glasses all the time and it became a standard joke at my last job as a passer by would laugh and pick them up for me without a word. I finally gave up on feeling bad about
it and tried to make it funny. I also now use my "little picker upper" i got after spine surgery. You know the one, long stick with a little hand at the end so you can pick anything up. I know where your at. YOu are in the "I dont want to be this way " stage...........I am not minimizing it but am trying to tell you that it is VITAL you move through acceptance of somethings or you will get depressed. That way if you get better and can again pick up things it will feel wonderful!!!!!!!!!!! I can now pick things up but have to do it slowly and spread legs apart some. I still give thanks everynight that I can walk. Just know if you want to vent or complain about
your limitations is all ok...we all do it so are here for you!