Dear Sherry,
Only thing I can think of that might help is muscle relaxer or stonger anti depressant. There are of course other options like nerve abalation, I ran across a neat article the other day, maybe I can find it again, hold on.
Here it is. Looks like I emailed it to myself
Basic Overview
~~> http://www.niams.nih.gov/Health_Info/Back_Pain/default.asp#10
Here are a few others you might find useful
Rhizotomy
~~> http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rhizotomy
Anti-Seizure meds for pain
~~> http://www.spine-health.com/treatment/pain-medication/anti-seizure-medications-neuroleptic-drugs
All medication options with general summery
~~> http://www.spineuniverse.com/treatments/medication/prescription-drugs-back-neck-pain
*hugg*
dani