Posted 8/12/2013 2:37 PM (GMT 0)
Oh Vickie, Vickie, Vickie. I cherish your posts.
I had what started out as a great weekend running on high after a super duper PT session on Friday, then yesterday, DOMS kicked in and oh yeah, okay, got it, I feel it. Not real bad, but by bed time, up to around a 5. Where I "live" on the scale, I'm still okay, keeping the good weekend in my head AND I even (get this!) I walked around the block once, (with my cane of course)....it's a teeny block, but...
Last night was my first night I decided to try sleeping in the bedroom together and not in my hospital bed, which currently is in the living room as the house is filled with packing boxes (filled ones and broken down ones). Different room. Relegated to a fan that runs on me, non stop, 24/7. Okay, let's try this. I get into bed, crank that A/C up, and happily crawl under just a sheet and thin little quilt. This might work. Not bad. I'm doing okay.
Then the yanking starts. From the....other,...side,...of,....the,....bed. "WHY do you HAVE to HAVE this THING on? IT'S like SIXTY outside! open the -->insert word of choice for 2am<-- DOORS!" We have those sliding glass doors in the bedroom, so lots of air can come in.
So he did.
And then I did. I moved back to my hospital bed. Cranked the fan back on. Filled my Polar Cube with a whole bag of ice, took one of my Xanax, and tried to settle back into bed. Needless to say, once I get woken up, especially if it's "abruptly" like that, all the Grecian gods couldn't get me back into a slumber.
Hubby and I get along amazingly well, and he's terrifically supportive. He's also protective over me, wanting to make sure I don't hurt myself.....very encouraging. But girlfriend, when it comes to the A/C and the "temperature of choice" then it's like War of the Roses or something.
He also wears two tee shirts and a hoodie with jeans and boots when it's nearing 100 degrees out and he's comfy....even as a little kid, he was like that. And very sadly, even as a kid growing up, I'd swim in the Atlantic ocean in the Spring and Fall or in the freezing CT river or we lived near Angel Falls and the water never warmed up.
This whole,...."woman thing"....just makes me cringe.
Vickie, you rock. Just like CP it's nice to be able to share hot flashes and cold sweats and moments of thrashing, and not feel alone.
Sookie