Hey B...Sorry to hear you're hurting=( I can say from experience that "moving some things around" in your mom's room can make your spine very ANGRY. Please, sweetie...I know you want to help your mom recover and keep her spirits up. Just be sure to check your tank for fuel. If you're past empty, you can't help anyone. I know because I've been running on empty with my 88 year old mom for 9 years. Take care of yourself and let the staff take care of her. The rehab will be helpful physically for her, so your only job for now is to visit often (with ice cream?) to keep her spirits up.
Please don't even consider the stimulator at this point. I think increased pain is the "ding ding" of your own tank approaching empty. Take the time to refill and regroup=)
Healing Hugs~~Dixie