Handbag Sized Odour neutralizer?

Others have recommended a product called "just a drop" that you drip into the toilet bowl before you go. I have not tried it before but if you google it you will probably see it online. I would also like to get a mini aerosol b/c mine are not usually stinky enough to require deodorizer but sometimes I get surprised. It would be nice to be prepared.

As far as sharing a suite, if it is in a hotel you could just use the lobby bathroom for number 2's. (If you can hold it that long.) Although depending on how comfortable you are with this new partner it may get awkward making excuses to go to the lobby lol. But if you are a morning pooper (like me!) you could go while your partner is in the shower. I understand how crappy this situation is... ha ha I didn't mean to make a pun even.

Hi I swear bythe Just a drop, it is a little bottle but u can also get travel packets. It works really well and I have all my friends and family using it now lol

remember the restrictions on the amount of liquid you can carry on the plane

I don't wear an ostomy, but we have patients at work that use the Just a Drop that way. I wasn't too impressed with it myself. Zoe you could always make the excuse of going to the lobby for drinks, extra towels, snacks or ask for additional directions....good way to plan your escape to the lobby bathroom.
I've found the immediate flush method works best for me. Unfortunately it usually takes 3 flushes before I'm done....lots of wasted water!

for ostomy bags try tic tacs......I use them and everything comes out minty (usually). My dogs always try follow me into the bathroom when I don't feel like chasing them out they just lay on the floor and wait for me to finish. Then I started with the Tic Tacs and they were curious about the noisy box of mints so I gave each one a Tic Tac. I didn't think they'd like it but to my surprise the chewed them up and ate them. Now they bowl me over when I go into the bathroom because they think it's treat time and they want their Tic Tac.

thanks for all that helpful advice, i really appreciate it. i'll let you know how the holiday goes.