Hi hukleberrie...oh, this laptop drives me crazy! I just tried to post a long reply to your message &, of course, CRASH! Anywho, to summarize my post: do you have the option of joining an HMO? I reluctantly did this in '90 to lower my medical costs (I had insurance through my employer but as the gastro charges increased, my employer refused to pay the full 80% & the out-of-pocket expenses were killing me). Well, I'm still w/ the HMO, under Medicare + the extra premium & it's great. All medical records are computerized & therefore, all of my doctors have daily access to these records. Many tests are done at the facility that my PCP resides (bloodwork, urine, ekg, x-rays) & if I need to go to the hospital (Brigham & Womens, Mass. Eye & Ear), my doctors, either electronically or by fax, send & receive my records, referrals. There's little that I need to do & if I request copies of my medical records, these include all hospital info). I realize that you may not have this option as it depends on your state. This country definitely needs an overhaul of it's healthcare system! Regardless, the symptoms you describe are typical of a flare-up, just as Matthew stated, & this generally means that you need to be treated, either simply w/ meds or, at worst, surgery to remove the portion of the bowel that's causing the inflammation. While I can list several cons of having an ileostomy I can also list many pros...no. 1 being the higher absence of pain. A piece of advise...do not worry about being a pest! Realize that, this is their job & trust me, the more that you speak-up, the more likely that you'll get immediate treatment. I was the same way for the first 15yrs. or so before I realized that the more outspoken people were getting the most attention. Remember, there's a difference between being an obnoxious ass & being respectfully firm. Keep at it & we'll await your reply...Fuzzy