I don't live anywhere near your state but I'm going to chip in with the suggestion about asking the nurses. You'd have to find a non-crappy nurse, which I hope you have managed to find, but if you tell him/her what you are hoping to find for the type of doctor's personality and/or treatment methods, they'll be able to tell you which doctor to try or even that there aren't any if that's the case. I found good specialists that way and the two nice doctors I already had, the nurses gush about how nice they are all the time.
Good luck, I hope you can find a decent doctor, please let us know how you are doing in your search.