Jen,
Welcome to Healing Well. This forum has been a great source of information and emotional release for me. There is a vast amount of knowledge and experience with this disease from those on this board. Don't be afraid to ask any questions. The only stupid question is the one not asked.
I went through a flare last year and spent 8 weeks recovering from surgery. I was always having my four year old daughter come up and lay with me on the couch in the evenings after preschool to spend my time with her. Enjoy your good days and focus on feeling better during your bad days.
I have really relied on my faith to help me through some of my more difficult time. I read Tony Dunge's book "Quiet Strength" during my recovery last fall and found a scripture from the Bible that has become my motto with this disease. It is 1 Corinthians 4:8-9: "We are pressed on every side by troubles, but we are not crushed. We are perplexed, but not driven to despair. We are hunted down, but never abandoned by God. We get knocked down, but we are not destroyed." Another quote (and I don't remember where I got it) that helps me is "Inch by inch, life is a cinch. Yard by yard, life is hard." It helps me to remember to focus on the present instead of looking at the future.