Hi i agree with Ides i would try what the doc is suggesting first as your daughter is at a very young age to start having parts of her bowel removed. hopefully the remicade will work and she won't need the surgery. i only had 1 infusions of remi (as i had a reaction on the 2nd one )but i felt the benefit of it the very next day i so wish i was still on it wishing your daughter well Bev x