MMMNAVY said...
The last time I hemmoraged (after being sexually active for quite some time) so darn bad I ended up in the hospital, and the doctor said it is because the vaginal canal and the poop chute are so close together that when crohns is bad it can inflame the entire area (the swelling from crohns had litterly moved an ovary 3 inches and the vagina down 2 inches in the process of less then a year). Sure as heck did not think I signed up to become a Nun, but looking that way for several years now...so not cool in your twenties and thirties. :( Needless to say that is one of the reasons why I am not married right now.
I'm so sorry 2 hear this Navy omg that must have been so painful,,and u r right about the 2 parts its a good job we all can talk about this stuff so openly,,r parts again that r 2 close when ever me and my husband make love which would b ever momet of the day if he had his way lol I get so much pressure on my bum u know that I tense up and get scared and push him away cause I'm scared I'm going 2 have an accident,,which I did 2 many times 2 mention but he don't seem 2 mind we always make a joke out of it but it still hurts me when he goes 2 sleep I get up and sleep on the couch and cry silly I know but if anyone does u guys will,,,Like I have mentioned in many of posts I have been very sick now for 6 and a half months and had a double bowel resection and a triple hernias repair done and don't have much control over my bowel since and I'm young 2 I guess I think I am I'm 35 but still get ID @ the liquor store BONUS and to top things of I now have short bowel syndrome and I'm getting another TPN put in very soon once the infection clears up so there is always that 2 throw into SEX,,,I have found that everyone had some really great advise on this post,,,One thing that I did find that helped me was apin meds before and a hot bath,,also the postion in which we choose I tried sitting on the end of the bed with my bum fully on the bed and u can figure out the rest but it takes the pressure of the BUM I tell ya I hope this helps someone...Navy u will find someone someday who will sweep u of your feet and he won't give a poop no pun intended if u have 2 stop in the middle of it or not and like guy said men r more into foreplay and touching carressing fondling we all know what they want in the end,,,but Navy u will find your guy I feel it and when U do I want u 2 get a web cam and prove 2 all these single women and men on here there is good people out there that will love u 4 u and what ever comes with it...))))HUGS(((( ~Jenn~