Thank you all very much for all of the information and kind words. Nanners, I really did feel like this was a death sentence when my doc. first told me, but he must have seen the look an my face, and told me the very same thing that you just did: It's not a death sentence. So I feel very comfortable here since you said that.
Sometimes I do forget to take my meds, so I will have to get better at that. And I've been on antidepressants for a few years now for anxiety, depression, and mood swings, so I don't really think the diagnosis has really had a chance to sink in yet, as in, I have not had a good crying spell yet. In my opinion, I feel like we have caught this pretty early. I don't recall any syptoms of the crohn's before this year, but then again, you never know. I have had heartburn off and on since I was about 17, but just took Tums or something of that nature. During both of my pregnancies, that was a real issue. I'm not sure I've even expierenced a true flare up just yet, and really hope I don't ever, but that's just silly with having this diagnosis. So far, I've been able to eat like I normally have been. I don't drink and I don't smoke, so that's probably in my favor. I have read others posts where they are not able to eat things like beef, lettuce, dairy, ect. but so far, I have been ok. Now, I am a picky eater, and I don't like spicy foods, seafood, raw tomatoes, pickles, and I could go on and on. My husband says it would be easier for me to tell people what I do eat before I go into what I don't. LOL
I haven't quiet sat down to talk with my kids about this yet as they are only 4 and 6, about to be 7 in two weeks. At that age, I'm not sure they would even understand. They have seen me take my meds before the diagnosis, so there's no change in that. Does anyone have any suggestions for that area of this prognosis?
As for stress... well let's just say my life is probably as stressful as anyone else's. The job is stressful, the marraige is stressful, the kids are stressful. So how does one stay stress free in the world we live in today, and deal with this disease? Like I said, I am on antidepressants, but I am the worry-wort, as my family would call it.
Again, thank you all for your input and information!