hey dragonfly...hate those tags too! Like others said...the warm bathes, sitz baths and I love the Calmoseptine. I also find that my hand held shower on gentle setting with warm water works when a full bath is not practical. I often jump in my shower after a BM rather than using TP or a wipe on the sore bottom...I've even gotten coordinated enough to be able to leave my top on and not get myself soaked despite it being just a small stall shower.
Also, do you wear any kind of liner in your pants? I found that having those and keeping them fresh has helped a lot. It also keeps any extra calmoseptine of the material so getting clothes clean becomes less of a concern