Thank you all for all the feedback. I little more info was requested so I will fill in:
My symptoms have been mainly outrageous heavy and long flow for about a year and a half. The cramping was not so much of an issue. We played around with several solutions. I had the - oh my, the name is escaping me, but it was a T or Y shape insert into the uterus for BC. Well. . . my body spit it back out within a few days. We now think that the uterus was just to big to hold it.
I tried several different BC pills and we have now found one that works the best. I am like clockwork on when I will start . . but the length varies. Anywhere from 10-15 day usually. With approximately nine of those days being horribly heavy and with huge clots. The past three months I have had to miss one or two days from work - either due to the heavy flow - or the horrible cramps. These began about four months ago. I actually think there is only about a two day period when they are at their worst. But then again I think I still maintain a fairly high tolerance for pain (as we all do) from the 13 1/2 years I was active with symptoms.
Due to this last round of missing work I became concerned after feeling "achy" most every day in the lower abdomen and returned to the OB. She took a biopsy (non cancer) and measured. My uterus is at 14 1/2 cm. UGH. I consulted a surgeon - the surgeon says that the uterus is to large to remove in any other fashion than to have an open surgery with an incision from the belly button down. (would matched the other scar that runs from my belly button to almost sternum).
I returned to the OB for consultation and asked that she consult my Gastroenterologist. The OB called me the day I posted the first time. She stated that the Gastroenterologist stated that the best time would be when I was not "in a flare" and to have "minimal manipulation" of the intestine, but that I had a high likelihood (as did anyone) of becoming symptomatic again after surgery.
So I immediately began my efforts to research on line and see what others out there in my shoes had been doing and what their experiences have been. I have to admit that I am terrified. I have been six years symptom free and what I fear more than anything is for it to become active again.
You have given me several things to think about and look into. Please continue to share as ideas and suggestions pop in your head.
I am going to go in and visit with the Gastroenterologist and get their input first hand. I am going to go back to the OB and give her some of the feedback received here. What it seems that no one can tell me is if by waiting am I just prolonging the inevitable and if I wait am I making the risk higher?
Currently all I am on is 150 mg of Imuran, Slo Fe and a Rx strength fiber.