Heya,
I'm 43 now, I started working at the age of 16. Having a job for me when I was young meant a couple things.
I could move out of my parents house soon, cause we all know at that age you are so much smarter and wiser then your parents, you just can't wait to get out to the world and show them.
I had money for dating. Oh yeah baby, itallian food and girls. The two things I couldn't live without in my youth. What could be better then eating an amazing pasta dish across from a women you want to get to know :)
And of course, a car, I was going to buy the car of all cars, one that blows away my clasmates in highschool. Oh and my parents helped me to get that gorgeous Pinto, yeah I said Pinto. Never let your parents buy your first car :P But hey, I had a car. Pinto or not, my friends didnt have cars :)
I worked in the public sector until about 25 after college, but it was horrible, I don't know how people do it. Other employees like clicks where high school never ended, boss's on power trips, never earn what your worth, sexism, favortism, on and on.
I started my own business, then it got big and I sold it, and I kept doing this till 30 when I got sick. I could no longer spend 16 hours a day building a business model that would not only succeed but be something someone else would want to invest in.
I took another public job as a Bartender at a the Marriott, I worked there for three years while going through crohns. I managed to start 2 more business's while sick after my pancreas calmed down and held my job bartending to fund my business's.
By 35 I was done, crohns had beaten me down horribly, surgeries, hospital stays and being home sick tanked my business models, I declared backruptcy with over 40k debt.
I ended up on SSI, apparnetly running your own business's and selling them does not net you the ability to collect SSID. Either way...
It is now 8 years later, I am still on SSI, still sick and every time I start to get better, another organ decides it wants to be useless.
My 15 year long relationshipt GF stays by my side but works full time, if she didn't we would be screwed, as stated above, a tremendous amount of guilt goes with not being able to financialy help your mate or family.
I try not to let emotions get the best of me, I got enough to deal with.
So yeah, disabled after struggling for 5 years to work while sick. I so envy those who have the ability to work while sick. Truly warrirors, I can't even imagine how you work while having crohns, I know for some you must, for some its a way of life or belief, it doesn't matter I suppose in the long run, that you work at all is astounding to me.
I am simply amazed by the strength of some of our members to go on in the world carrying such a huge weight on their shoulders, or, errr...bowels :) WHile working.
Thanks
Jon