I wouldn't worry over it. The time to worry is when you start getting an infection again - fevers, increased pain, redness and warmth. Even then you don't really need to worry, you just need to see a doctor quickly to make sure it's kept under control. Abscesses can take a long time to heal, especially if they are in an area that doesn't get a lot of rest like yours. As I mentioned, I have had an abscess that took close to 3 months to heal. It's a pain and kept me from doing much, but it did heal eventually.
Seeing the surgeon may just be helpful because he may have tools to help it heal faster. There are creams, packing, resins, and minor surgeries (sort of aggrevating the wound to encourage it to keep healing) that can help it heal faster.
Hopefully that helps alleviate some of the worries. These things can be extremely stressful and scary because it's new and you don't know what's happening or what to expect. I've been through that a few times before. I imagine things will look better soon and you'll be back up and healthy. With my 3 month abscess it felt like it would never heal, and then all of a sudden things cleared up, the pain went away, and it was like I never had it.
Good luck! I hope things turn around soon.