Yes, there can be issues with personalities in the person groups. I just lucked into a good group. There are some issues that make me reconsider going sometimes, but I still go because you don't want a bad apple to spoil the bunch. It is all in what is made of it so goo d meeting leadership makes a huge diofference and we have that.
I love this forum as it gives me a broader perspective on things and there are fantastic anf funny people here. The anonymity is also a benefit in some situations. However, I also like the local info I get and some of the personal contact from a group meeting. If you really want some face to face, perhaps you could consider running a group? Just a thought for the future.