Thanks for all of your replies. Just for a short history, at the time we chose to put our child on Remi, we had exhausted Prednisone, Entecort, Pentasa and 6MP. We had tried EO28 Splash and she out and out gagged and refused to drink it. A feeding tube seemed like too much of an extreme, life-altering option and scared the hell out of her...to traumatic for a child to think she had to have a tube hanging out of her stomach. She was doing so-so on the 6MP as far as symptoms (even tho we did not feel comfortable with her taking that med either), but her scope showed progression of Crohn's which led her doc to say surgery was a likely event in the not too distant future. Remi was our last option at that point, other than to go "med-less" and try a more natural approach like STD. With a child who is a very very particular eater, STD was not an option as we knew she would not cooperate with such a drastic change. (stubborn kid). We read up on the Remi, and altho we did not like the risks, felt it was our only option. She had her 8th infusion yesterday. Her bloodwork is perfect. Her weight is back to normal. She is growing again. Life is good. I pray it stays that way. Her GI doc said studies have shown that those who start Remi earlier in life have been shown to benefit more from it than those that start at an older age. He also said most of the cancer cases have been in males (28 of 30 cases) and that most are while taking more than just Remi alone. He also mentioned that the mobidity rate is much higher with prednisone, and the risks are higher with 6MP than Remi. Turns out, according to him, that Remi is actually the safer option out of the other meds we had tried. He did also mention that there are at least 2 new meds coming down the pike in the next few years. They, too, though will be IV/infusion or sub-Q injections. No oral meds coming out at this time, as it appears the oral meds are quickly digested and do not provide lasting benefits. I too, am hopeful, as others mentioned here, that new better, safer meds are in her future. Our GI Doc appears hopeful due to the massive amount of research being done on IBDs.
So for now, we continue with Remi and try not to live in fear.