Once again Thanks everyone for replying:
All of your suggestions and experiences are really helping right now quite a bit.
Dingleerie, it sounds like you and I are in a similar place. I relate to everything you're saying. If you make the decision to go to Remicade as well, I think you want to avoid the combination with 6MP. That seems to be where most of the risk comes from.
Julia: as fas as the stricture status, and what would happen to it with Remicade. It seems to be at most a secondary issue to our GI right now. But I will be discussing that thoroughly as we get closer to making this decision. I had been looking to strictureplasty, and actually forgot about the possiblity of balloon dilation. Thanks for the suggestion, as I will also discuss that with the GI.
Melissa: You're right in that Prednisone isn't an option with fistuals present. They didn't really give us any other options either, It was just like "you need to go on Remicade of Humira, it's you're choice". The nurse didn't even tell her where the fistulas are going or if connected somewhere? Thank-You very much for your concern.
Gutsii: Thanks for offering to discuss your experiences further. I'll take you up on that. That's quite an imposition. Very kind of you.
Tom.