You certainly have had a very rough ride of late. In regards to your last line, I don't think you're going to find anyone with similar circumstances, but you should be able to get some advice none the less.
Since you've recently been on Tysabri, I can only guess that you've already tried Remicade and Humira before. Again, I'm guessing that you're going back to Humira, as this is a usual pregression.
I hope this works for you, but have you thought about other biologics? You might consider Cimzia, Stelera or the most promising new drug which should be available soon, Vedolizumaub. Worth asking your GI about.
I hope things calm down soon. If the Humira is a good choice for you, then it should get things in order.