Hi Volleygirl
Firstly huge hugs, any part of dealing with Crohns is always hard but a fistula in this area is never good news. I have had perianal fistula in the past of which remicade was a great success, however this time last year I started to experience puss, wind and then poop in what I thought was my bladder. Turns out it this was the case but also through my vagina. I ended up being incontinent.
With a ball of diseased bowel needing to be removed it was decided I was too far gone for remicade (although I was also told that remicade doesn't have as good a success rate with these types of fistula anyway). I had surgery in February this year, initially the vaginal fistula was going to be repaired but the decision was made during the operation that as there was so much infection it was better to leave as is for any nasty stuff to be able to drain from my pelvis. The view was with the bowel being rested (I also was given an ileostomy) the vagina would heal of it's own accord. To date this seems to be the case. With an indwelling cathetar for three months, the same has happened to my bladder.
I was initally quoted as five days for being in hospital which does seem to be the norm but as I was extreme case I was in for longer. I read up a lot myself prior to the operation regarding taking tissue from elsewhere and covering the fistula, but as mentioned above this wasn't the route that was chosen for me.
I do really believe that having the ileostomy gives the affected areas chance to heal. I am approaching 8 months with my ostomy and with seeing my surgeon next week, I'm wondering what his views are regarding the reversal.
Please stay in touch, if there's anything you'd like to ask me please do. I know our situations are slightly different but also very similar.
Best wishes
Debbie