Wow 4 yrs !!! That's a long time bless ya x
I'm now 16 days lol but have noticed the past 2-3 days the pain is a lot easier it's mainly when I got to the toilet for a number 2 it does still sting a little but use a sitz bath after make sure the area is clean propoerly
I've also noticed it's not draining as much as it was before but still need to wear a gauze in between my checks as there is still some
I've notice the hole but is like a little lump just below my anus but the nurse sed that's normal cus the packing I was using until a few days ago wud pull it out like that to drain propoerly or something lol
I'm still learning to sit propoerly lol n wipe n wash properly without pulling the dam thing lol but I'm sure I will lol
I got bk to hosp in around -7-8 weeks to have it checked then he sed 4-5 weeks after il either have another op to replace or remove the seton but will have to wait n see what happens
I'm just hoping u can't notice it when I wear a bathing suit when I go Egypt for my first holiday abroad ever !!! Lol also not looking forward to a 5 hour flight with this thing in my bottom haha but never mind
I haven't let my partner any where near me so far mainly cus ov how I was feeling ie in pain groggy ect but now the pains going I'm feelin bit nervous about
him seeing what it all looks like down there lol he says it's no big deal we been togeather 14 yrs n he's seen me give Birth to both our kids n that wasn't a pretty site hahaha but still as a 31 yr old women it does make me feel I dunno less womanly I guess also a bit scared that it will get pulled or knocked :-/
how did u feel when it came to the first time afterwards if u don't mind me asking lol x