I had a severe rectal stricture for a couple years that was crazy small when they finally went in there for my surgery. She said it was only a couple cm across. No wonder I was having such trouble! Anyway, I never said I was against getting a "bag," I just never even considered it was something that could happen until my surgeon mentioned it. I eventually begged for the surgery. I have had a colostomy for 4.5 years now and my life is so much better. I still have CD and ostomies have their own set of headaches, but I am so glad I never have to strain, or push, or kill myself to go, or rush to find a bathroom, or spend hours on the toilet, again. So much pain and suffering is gone because of my "bag."
I have a rectal stricture too. It's pretty bad. But I'd honestly rather be dead than have a colostomy bag. Seriously. That will be something that I will NEVER get.
Maybe you should consider what you're saying before you say something like you would rather die than have an ostomy. You are, of course, entitled to your opinion, however ignorant it may be. I know that may be harsh, but I'm really tired of people acting like an ostomy is the end of the world and that people with them are somehow lepers or monsters. Many lives have been saved because of ostomies and I find it incredibly stupid that someone would rather suffer untold amounts of pain or death to avoid something that really isn't a big deal. Feel free to unleash the doody (I doody) storm of responses telling me I'm mean, but sometimes (ok most times) I just can't keep my mouth shut.