I'm afraid my period will not come :(

Hello well i had my 14 birthday in september and recently started panicing about the fact that i haven't got my period...Well i have Crohn's since a year but the symptoms were as long as i can remember myself.At first i didn't have any puberty signs.When my classmates were growing i wasn't.But i developed pimples,curvy waist,a little bit height and weight gain,pubic hair,breast bumps,armpit hair and white discharge from my vagina.At first my mom was worried that i had an infection so i went to a gynecologogist.And he told us it was normal.The thing is that i'm 29 kg and i think i'm too thinn to have my period.My family tells me the same.And my GI too.A have the white discharge every day for about half a year or so.And the doctor told me i will get my period 6 to 12 months after i got my white discharge.Sorry if i have spelling problems ( not an native english speaker).My question is does someone have the same problem?Being 14 or older and 29 kg and not having their period.And will it come?I mean anorexic girls don't have theirs and they weigh the same as me.Will mine come?

Hi kazbern well after i started having my Humira injections and drinking Imuran pills i feel like i have no fricking desiese!I was 27 kg 3 months ago and 5 sm smaller so it's definetly something!I try to keep a healthy diet.My GI told me that everyone is difrent and that i alone will se what i can eat and what i can not.But whenever my parents are feeding me with water and meat all the time i feel soo leftdown.I feel like i'm on a diet to get slim.I try to get the most of the foods that don't cause any tummy pain or diharia (wow totally spelled that wrong i need to take english class lessons) like french fries and juices or chocolate.I just feel like i have to eat it.First it tastes good and second i feel like i can gain more weight that way.But i don't over eat the junk stuff i still look after my diet.So back to the period problem EVENTUALLY??What does that mean?I have a friend that got hers at 18 but she's a healthy person.I just feel like if i get mines i will grow faster because of the hormone stuff.And i'm scared that in 4 years i will be an adult.I was 24 kg when i was 10 in 4 years i gained only 5 KG??!! i have to be at least 40 by the time im 18 i sure hope that my remission will last as long for me to catch up on my weight and height while i still can.The thought of everything is terrifying me.I don't feel like a teen nor like a child.I'm a mix and don't know how to feel around my classmates that look like 25 year olds...

Don't worry. It will come. The discharge is a good sign. I think I had discharge for about two years before I got my period. I was always very small and didn't weigh very much. I got my period two months before I turned 15. All of my friends looked like women and I looked very young for a long time. Your body will mature. Your disease can slow your growth, but if your meds are working and you feel better then you should eat whatever you can to gain some weight. Try to get your parents to let you eat more than just meat. Can you eat white rice? Rice is a good filler and shouldn't be hard on your intestines. Hang in there! Don't worry.

Ask your mom and other female family members when they starting menstruating. Some families reach puberty at older ages. In my family, we all started very young. But I know a woman here in the US who was perfectly healthy otherwise who didn't have a period until she was nineteen years old.

Of course you disease may delay yours, but most likely it will come.

Post Edited (JaSanne) : 9/29/2014 8:00:51 PM (GMT-6)

Thanks for the support guys !! Well my parents are over protective and they don't let me eat junk food.But i eat it when i have the chance.I eat olives and rice and most of the things i eat many fruits .I'm happy that everyone helps me and i get calmed when i see your responses.

Well yes i eat bread too but by i eat only meat i meant that i eat mostly meat all the time.On every eating maybe