Posted 8/26/2015 3:04 AM (GMT 0)
Oh I'm so sorry you're struggling with this. I've heard women can get fistulas from pregnancy/delivery, did you have a big baby? Or a difficult natural delivery?
Not to scare you but I had signs of Crohn's disease in my teens with what's called perianal crohn's skin tags, they are kinda but not at all the same as external hemorrhoids but instead of being an inflamed vein it's actually diseases anal tissue related to crohn's disease, when I was a teen they came and went on their own and it wasn't until oddly enough, about a yr and a half after I had my first baby (she was big for my size and being my first, 8 lbs 15 oz natural delivery) that my skin tags really got nasty (still believing they were hemmies as every doc that looked at them said they were, they were wrong) then my CD quickly became apparent when I started having daily frequency and it soon turned into diarrhea (after I had the skin tags believed to be hemmies banded) they shouldn't have banded the skin tags as they were in a flare (large and hard) and sadly stayed that way ever since (24.5 yrs later now) that on top of severe crohn's attacking my small intestine, colon and rectum was enough to put me over the edge especially with a fairly new baby still...so I feel you pain...and your CRS by the way, deserves a hard slap in the face for her comments to you and should be ashamed of herself for what she said to you.
Not saying that this fistula is a definite start to a diagnosis of Crohn's but I just wanted you to be aware that CD is a very disgusting and sneaky disease that I hate with a vengeance by the way as it totally ruined my life in many ways. I saw an episode on Dr. Oz about some women developing fistulas strictly from pregnancy/birth/delivery so if you can, look into that....I also suggest you get more opinions as well and hopefully you'll find specialists with a much better bed-side manner as well as knowledge as to what the cause and hopefully cure to your fistula is.
Congratulations on your new baby boy!! What day in June was he born? My birthday is the 22 of June lol!