Posted 11/5/2015 7:51 PM (GMT 0)
Dawnc77
Funny, I am 36, Female also!! I have 3 girls ages 12, 8 & 6!!
The 5 days in the hospital weren't as bad as I anticipated!! Day of Surgery was kind of a blur, when I came out of surgery I had morphine pump that I could push for pain, and the medications from the surgery, made me pretty loopy!! :). So pain control was good!! I had a cath put in during surgery that was removed that next morning. That evening of surgery they got me up to stand and walk, just to my doorway.
The second day i got to take a shower and I did everyday after too!! I brought comfy clothes hoping to change out of gown, but I couldn't I guess the hostpital for infection reasons don't want to unhook your IV so you can put bra/shirt on, so I stayed in gown while there. But your hospital could be different! I also just wore the robes they provide, you could bring your own if you wanted. I was able to wear my own underwear the incisions where high enough it was ok, just bring comfy ones that aren't tight cause your belly will be swollen a bit!
I brought my own pillow and a soft fleece blanket and I used them, my iPad which I used a lot to watch movies or be online, my phone and charger, ear plugs, Chapstick, I did bring my own toiletries for showering. I brought a book which I never cracked open! I did not nap much just that first day, but I am not never a napper, during the day my Mom was with me while my husband went to work. I had other family taking care of kids, they are all school age so that was nice they were busy during the day... I missed them like crazy!!!!! I was alone at night which was totally fine but it was nice to have the company during the day.
Second day I walked out to the hall 2-3 times and then everyday after just was encouraged to try to get up and walk as much as you can. It will get easier each day!
They will ask you all the time if you passed gas, so when you finally do seriously it makes you so happy, I actually called the nurse to tell her then I called my husband!!! :). The doctors and nurses told me to chew gum as much as I wanted cause it encourages the bowel to wake back up, so bring your favorite gum too!
At the second day they slowed down the pain pump, and started to do oral Tylenol and pill form morphine, by 3rd day was just getting IV fluids through IV. By the day I went home I was mostly just taking Tylenol for pain, they gave me a script for pain Meds and after home I just took them at bedtime to help me sleep good.
So after I got home, my Mom stayed about 4 days to help with kids, which I would highly reccomend or your spouse cause you won't want to be home alone with kids especially if they are young and need you for a lot things, I was instructed not to drive for 2 weeks also.
So I feel like I could go on and on just cause it's so fresh in my mind!! If you have any other questions don't hesitate to ask me!!
It will all go great!!!!! :)