Keep slim day by day

Hello to readers
Since 2019 keep lost weight at first should be crohns has flare up stomach feel bloated sound inside gas inside tell GL about it and Dr feel my stomach say is soft no problem so drag till 2020 Dec GL say stop my humira change to another new jap , start first infusion on 1st April 2021 then second Jap are jap pen so I jap myself on 24 June 2021 , see GL on 1July 2021 on 18 June went to hospital took bloodtest first after 3 days saw test result my CRP went up to 29 wah high infection 😭 so worries about it , will Dr ask to admit hospital? Hope not cos cant take all contast scan .
Recently weight keep drop now 39.5 kg also can say no appetite at all , when hungry order or buy food that I choose when open up lost appetite again , even can eat also 2 spoon only stomach feel full ,so cannot continues ,has anyone been thru like that ? My father are lung cancer ,stomach cancer and bone cancer pass in 1993 , mum has colon cancer pass 2014 second aunt stomach cancer ,so about worry for myself , now daily intestine feel bloat pain and grumbling inside alone of funny sound , pain always in the left side when I press down the stomach feel good after release pain again ,here got one silly question to ask , since every scan I cannot do ,can I request Dr direct open a hole from bellybutton insert a tube in to see small intestine and others ? Since 12 yrs old been many times surgery and scan so now feel very scary and afraid , willing to sign consent forms myself , Recently body feel very weak feel tiredness keep fall asleep cant even cook many times pot also burn , bone pain , feel dizziness, last few days suddenly wan get up from bed my bone seen like a small crack till now more pain ,right arm cant use strength when move the pain will here , I can feel it some swell cos just front of my chest . Can someone teach me what can I do ? I have no friends no relatives no sibling only 1 son , son always treat me as maid dont even care of me ,son wan money if I got money buy food or give he will help me if not .... he dont even want help me buy dinner and keep complains ,he keep make dirty don't clean up at all , 20 yrs guy always blame me

Hey, like everyone here, not a doctor - so this isn't real medical advice. But over the years I've definitely had a few bouts of the same symptoms, and I ended up okay. To me, it sounds like there might be two things going on:

1. Anxiety / Stress: Some of the times I've had the worst appetite and lost the most weight, it turned out that I was extremely stressed. Dizziness, tiredness, etc. It's good not to ignore symptoms, but if you can get an appointment with your GI provider - or even visit the ER - at least you can relax a little. Right now you may have to just focus on getting in calories and electrolytes (if you're having trouble hydrating). I like ginger ale when my stomach is upset.

2. It's possible you're having a bad flare, or experiencing an infection of some kind. Again, they can do things like a high-dosage course of Steroids. They use other kinds of medications to treat infection. But even if you have to be admitted, it's a lot better than emergency surgery. Some people just need to stay over-night and recover fine at home.

Can't comment on your son, but it's okay to focus on yourself right now. Most 20yr olds can take care of themselves, but you need to rest and recover. Depending on your country, social services might be able to help with checking-in on you and providing some small assistance. Take care.