I have had crohn's for 7 years, and have had 2 periods of skeletal weight- I am in my second period now- the first time around I just stopped eating because it hurt too much- I dropped to 73lbs (I am 5'5"). Right now I am slowly rebounding a bit from my second lowest weight- in july I was hovering between 79 and 85lbs. I have been trying to "beef up" for my surgery in december. My mom is a nurse, and is pretty close to one of the nutritionists at her hospital. They have this stuff called prostat, an extremely high grade protein. It is a gel-like substance, which eww, I know- but even milk shakes were not helping too much with my weight- they just shot right through me, so I don't think much was being absorbed. This protein stuff you can mix in anything- which is good because at the moment and for the past 6 months liquids have been it for me. I am happy to report that since I started using them almost daily I have been able to raise my weight to around 90lbs give or take, and now my blood work is better, and my blood pressure is no longer 70/40-good to know because my last colonoscopy/endo a month ago I was not even able to be sedated because they thought that just a test like that was not worth putting me under/slipping me a mickey with such low blood pressure. Since I am having surgery again in less than a month now I don't want any problems with the anesthesia!!! I wish your brother the best, and just try your best to not have that scared look in your eyes whenever you see him- I know that was so hard for me with my family members, especially when I hadn't seen some of them in a while. You almost get the feeling like you are letting your loved ones down, and that can be very hard. I know that my family wishes the very best for me always, and the scared look is justified, but it makes me sad knowing thatnot only am I in pain, but others can feel it just by seeing me- I never wanna drag anyone else down- ya know!!! All the best, Erin