Unbelievable! Sounds like you did eventually learn though.
We'd been living together for 3 years when I had my surgery. She did come to see me after she drank her beer but only stayed a few minutes. (Probably had something really important to do that evening ... like play pool or something.) Anyway, when she came to get me the around 10:30 the next morning, she was hungry and wanted to go to breakfast! She wanted bacon and pancakes! I was sore and yucky from surgery. I wanted to go home. I told her it was easy enough to make bacon and pancakes at home but she didn't want to do that. She ended up driving through Jack in the Box on the way home but was really mad at me that I wouldn't go out with her.
Yeah, I should've known too. But that was another life ago. Just shy of 5 years I'd finally had enough. There ARE wonderful women out there as I have found out. Hope things have looked up for you, too!