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Posted 4/6/2008 7:46 PM (GMT 0)
Thank you for the advice! How do I clear the computer history?
Posted 4/6/2008 8:48 PM (GMT 0)
Tools, internet options,clear history. You can even change the default to zero days so nothing is ever saved. If he knows about this site and knows your username, he can always look it up,this is a public message board. I suggest you keep that type of info. to yourself......

It does sound a bit abusive to me. Abuse is not just beating and calling names. If someone makes you feel inferior to them or that you are "bad" that can be abuse. I would like to believe if you did have a problem, your husband would stand by your side and hold your hand rather than withold his affection and support.

Best of luck to you in your situation.

Posted 4/7/2008 12:48 AM (GMT 0)
If he does it again, tell him you will turn him into the authorities YOURSELF. As stated, those pills were prescribed for *YOU* He has no say in this matter, technically at least.
I do fear an abusive pattern is starting. Please do not give him too much benefit in the doubt dept. before you decide he is abusing you. Better to suck it up & get out.
Sorry to be blunt, but I've seen this before. Even in my own family, My stepfather was a prime example of this kind of behavior.

Sincerely,
Yours
Matthew
Posted 4/7/2008 1:00 AM (GMT 0)
Bible, my heart goes out to you. I was in an abusive marriage myself--I was not sick then but I was "controlled" in many ways. My situation gradually got worse and worse and I left.

Please do not feel bad about needing pain medicines. YOU know your body, not him.

I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers and my email address is posted on here. Please feel free to email me if you ever want or need to talk.

Please keep us updated on how things are going. We are all here for you.
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