Jersey,
Your story sounds exactly like mine ! I had the same thing happen. I have had Crohns for 15 years and within the last 3 years i was on remicade and then humira. I kept obstructing from all the scar tissue that developed in my ileum and colon. Like you, i kept using steroids to get over them but ultimately I found myself obstructing again. I saw the CT scans myself, there was no denying how narrow my bowel had gotten. On April 7th, I had my first surgery, a resection. The recovery the first 2 weeks was a little rough. Week 3 got better, and week four was even better. I am doing well and eating and drinking and feeling good. I was very resistant to surgery and questioned my decision right up until they put me to sleep. I know there are things that could go wrong, but for right now, my life is so much better than it was. I guess my advice is to keep an open mind. It is a scary decision, I know. Take all the time you need to make it. Hope you feel better.
ajz