Mental state of mind after surgery

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keepinghope

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Joined : Jul 2008

Posts : 53

Posted 4/16/2009 8:30 PM (GMT 0)

We are 20 years married, she still claims she never was intimate with him but she left the comformation for the motel on her computer and info in the car along with douche. the girls are 15 & 17. everything has to be done through the legal system I was notified yesterday we are going back to court. She will not leave the house I am not aloud to stop doing anything because it will show as poor treatment towards her because of crohn's. I still dont know if I have to pay her legal fees because of income difference.I took vacation to be with her at hospital and when she came home, Her family does not even support her, they think its my responsibility, they dont even phone her, but show up for a free meal when she invites, but she wont allow my family here I bought a tv over a year ago but its not allowed in house so I can not bring it home for kids to watch, instead I take them to watch it where it is

Thanks for listening

onthecan

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Joined : Mar 2009

Posts : 318

Posted 4/16/2009 9:31 PM (GMT 0)

Dear Keepinghope she is some piece of work you should be able to do what you want it isn't your resonsibility to take care of her what cracker of a lawyer did she get as for the legal fees i think it depends on your finances if there is more money made on one side than it is up to them to pay your poor little girls she set some example for them telling them its all right to run around and them having to see there own mother hurt there dad like this,she is making me sick those girls at there age and mom and dad going through divorce is going to be so hard on them there likely feeling bad for daddy and mom cause she is sick and she is going to use that to keep them close tell them you want to see them don't give up there teen agers now but they still need there dad. I am praying for you keepinghope my e-mail is posted if you want send me a message any time. Good luck again keepinghope you need it. Your Friend Jenn

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