Need some advice..Maybe not Crohn's afterall

So I just went for my second follow up with my Colon/Rectal surgeon. He had told me after my surgery to drain two abscesses, that he could not find my fistulas, which his partner had found approx. 1 year ago, but that he suspected that I did have one.

Today, when I asked him about this, he stated that he was not convinced that I had Crohn's and that perhaps I just had a really bad infection which caused the abscesses.

I talked to my GI the other day he stated that he believed that the Cimzia had closed my fistulas up and that the abscesses were just left over infection. I have not talked to him today about what the surgeon said (left a message fro him to call and still waiting)

Right now I am so confused because I had just started to get used to the idea of having CD. NOW I'm being told that I may not have it?! But my biggest question is if it is not CD how could an infection cause ALL of the symptoms that I have had for the past year/year and a half. Plus I was on all sorts of antibiotics after my first surgery approx 2 years ago. Wouldn't those have cleared up any infection that I had and how could they not have realized it was just an infection when I first came to my GI.

So now I am not sure what to do or where to go from here.

Any advice would be greatly appreciated!

I've been dealing with having my Crohn's dx questioned also.  I was dx'ed about 5 yrs ago by capsule endoscopy, when everything else had come back okay (except Promethius said I had UC).  Crohn's was in the TI, which is why it never showed up on colonoscopies.  Anyway, Remicade put me in remission and I've stayed in remission with Cimzia and Humira (have switched back and forth a few times after having allergic reactions to Remicade). 

Fast forward to now and the "Crohn's related arthritis" has gotten so bad and we have exhausted all options except for stopping Humira and trying Enbrel or another biological just for RA.  GI first said no because my "Crohn's has proven very difficult to treat in the past."  Asked again 6 months later and was told he would do some tests to find out if I "even have Crohn's" or if it's "just IBS."  Um, what?  So, after being on dangerous meds for 5 years, he is questioning the dx now that we have to make some big decisions about my treatment.  I was so confused.  Anyway, colonoscopy came back suspicious for Crohn's but then the biopsy was normal.  Waiting on the results of my capsule endoscopy from last week.  I don't think I will believe him if he says I never had Crohn's, because the Crohn's meds made me so much better and because another GI thougth he saw Crohn's on the pillcam.  But, it would give me another option for the arthritis treatment. 

So, I completely understand feeling confused and lost because Crohn's has become part of who you are.  It would be great not to have it now, but it would take some time to adjust to who you think of yourself as being. 

No Nanners, my GI did blood tests and made diagnosis based on symptoms as well.