you are past the point of stool softeners. Fiber, dulcolax, senocot, etc. Save your money and chug some milk of magnesia. Eventually it WILL work. If you don't have a bm , have more, then more, etc. I get the generic cherry flavor from zellers and use it prn when I have lots of painkillers.
The only time I was badly constipated was after surgery and lots of T3's (for some reason codeine is far more constipating than opiates).. anyway I tried everything and nothing helped. I felt like I was going to go and then it would go back in. gross. Anyway after LOTS of MoM I did go, and it was an emergency, I was in the bedrom and dh was on the throne
well I could NOT hold it. TMI alert
!! I grabbed one of those disposable blue and white pad things that are rectangular and you can lie on if youre bleeding etc.. and went, and went, and went. Then dh got off the throne, I ran to the bathroom, and went some more. The poo that was on that pad weighed SO much and looked like horse poo . It was so dense from being in all that time.. no one would ever have thought a human pooed that. NO way. I will never forget it. Dh went to move it when I ran to the toilet and it was like lifting a heap of bricks! but let me tell you, the best feeling ever to get that crap out!
Milk of Mag, and Don't be stingy with it!! Start at least 3 tablespoons and work up from there. Make sure you're close to the toilet.
Good luck.