Thanks for your reply, Nanners!
Well, I just thought I'd let you know that he had the second attempt (both yesterday and today) at a cleanout and it was unsuccessful. His little bum is so red and sore though, from having stool sitting in his pull up against his skin. I've actually put him in underwear with a maxi pad in it, hoping it somehow helps and is enough to catch the smears he has.
I put a call in to our GI nurse at Sick Kids Hospital in Toronto and she'll likely call back tomorrow with the next step. I already know what it's going to be though, an NG tube and GoLytely. And it too, won't work. It didn't a year ago and it probably won't this time.
It would be nice if they could figure it out, they need to figure it out. He can't start healing until we have a dignosis, a treatment and a plan.
Thank you for the support I've found here!
E