Well, other than the age disparity at onset of our Crohn's you and I share a common and timely history, Andrew.
My symptoms first began in mid-1975, I was Dx'd in early 1976 at age 34. I had a resection of 18 inches of the mid-ileum in early 1978. And then was blessed w/a 20 year remission of my Crohn's.
However, diarrhea has not been a problem for me. I tend more to constipation. When my Crohn's did return in 1998 it returned in a mild form so that once I got started on Pentasa and then a few years later, Imuran, I pretty much remain in at least symptomatic remission, usually full remission.
Yeppers, it was a prolonged period of serious stress, not so much physical as emotional; working full time, caring for two elderly mothers, etc., etc., etc. A real rough time in my life.
I have "graduated" to a high grade partial obstruction at the old anastomosis and when I get some symptoms at times it is often difficult to determine if it is Crohn's activity or the partial obstruction causing the problems.
We've been two of the fortunate ones.