Thank you so much for the kindness you all have given me. My sister and I ahve decided to drive all the way to Atlanta as the flights would be about $700-$1000. It will be a long drive (15 hours for hubby and I not including stopping), but at least we have control over stopping for breaks. My sister has UC so this should be a super road trip for our husbands.
I am literally at the end of my sadness rope. But, I am trying very hard to stay out of "my dark place". My husband keeps trying to find positives for me and has been a positive all on his own. Sad as it is-these things come in threes should mean I am done (I lost my 53 year old brother-in-law a few months ago, my Dad a few weeks ago and my uncle this week). I am going to try and focus on the good memories, the future Hawaii trip we have planned and try to heal my gut.
Thanks for listening everyone!