Posted 12/6/2013 2:29 AM (GMT 0)
My husband has crohn's disease. He is currently on Remicade 10mg/kg every 8 weeks. At the beginning he was very, very sick. Six weeks in the hospital, and lost over 50 lbs - came home too weak to shower by himself. Since then, he's recovered. He's back to normal. He's had a few bumps, but never as bad as the first one. It is now going on 5 years (knock on wood).
I think the hard part of IBD is actually getting diagnosed - and the whole time you are being diagnosed, the disease is gaining momentum and damaging your body. Once you are actually diagnosed, the next hard part is finding a treatment regimen that will put your disease into remission. I believe for the vast majority of people, this does happen. Thankfully, it did for my husband as well. He's been on remicade now at varying doses for over 5 years, and I attribute his good health to remicade. He lives a normal life, and is not in pain, and is not constantly in flare. He has had a couple of flares, but they were milder because he was on remicade, and a quick taper of prednisone, put him back into remission.
So, I don't think you should set your expectation to be always in a flare, and always in some level of pain. I think you should find a way to get to remission through medication. If you are having symptoms, and you can see signs of disease in tests, then, you are not in remission, and you need to keep working with your doctor to find the right medications to put you into remission. The goal of treatment is to get to a sustained remission (ie. get you into remission and keep you there as long as possible). During remission, you should have very minimal symptoms (if any), and you should be able to eat mostly normally.
So, hang in there, and push your doctors to get you into remission. I read from another post that you are on Lialda - which isn't a strong enough medication to put you into remission, especially with fistulas. I think you need to be on Remicade (which is also quite expensive - if your insurance doesn't cover enough of it, you should look into the remistart program funded by Remicade).
I hope you get into remission soon. Hang in there.
PV